Finally, a match who remembers your name.

Also is the dating app for middle children. Your profile loads before your older sibling's, after nobody's, and every match has to say your name correctly on the first try before the chat unlocks.

Get noticed (beta) See plans

41,200 middle children noticed so far. We counted each one individually.

Also 3 people noticed you
A woman in a mustard cardigan smiling patiently against a yellow wall Child 2 of 3
BethKaylaRachel, 33Left at a rest stop twice. Holds no grudge. Mostly.
What it does

Built by middle children, after everyone else had finished talking.

Three features. We tried to cut one so the other two would get more attention, and then we felt bad about it.

First-Name Verification

Every match must type your name without starting with your brother's name first. Three failed attempts and they are reassigned to your brother, who has plenty already.

The Hand-Me-Down Feed

Profiles your older sibling swiped past are passed down to you, gently used. Some have a small stain. Most still work fine.

Peacekeeper Score

Our model measures how fast you can calm down an argument you were not part of. Matches over 80 skip the first date and go straight to mediating Thanksgiving.

Reviews

People said nice things. We wrote them down so they would not be forgotten.

“My match said my name right on the first date. I told my therapist about it and she called me Jessica.”
Dana OkaforDebraDana OkaforSecond of Three, Regional Logistics Coordinator, Kept Everyone Calm at Two Weddings
“I matched the same week my sister got engaged. Nobody at dinner asked about it. The app sent a push notification. That counts.”
MartinMarcus FeldSecond of Four, Owner of the Family's Only Working Printer
“For the first time I am not the one picking the restaurant. I picked it anyway. Habit.”
PreetiPriya RamanMiddle Child Emeritus, Designated Driver Since 2009
Plans

Three plans. We recommend the one in the middle. Obviously.

Cancel any time. We will notice, and we will say something.

Left at the Rest Stop

$0

Free, like you were at the Shell station in 1997.

  • 5 swipes a day
  • Profile shown after a short wait, usually
  • Someone comes back for you within 40 minutes
Start free
Most overlooked

Middle Seat

$9.99/mo

Our most overlooked plan. It is very good. Nobody asks about it.

  • Unlimited swipes
  • Read receipts that confirm someone read it
  • One (1) birthday party that is only yours
  • Your own window seat, two weekends a month
Take the middle seat

Only Child Experience

$49/mo

For one hour a month, we pretend you were the only one.

  • Your photo goes on the fridge
  • Matches are told you are the funny one and the smart one
  • An account manager who asks follow-up questions
  • First pick of the good chair
Be the only one

Three people are waiting to notice you.

The demo is live with real fake profiles. Swipe through, type a name correctly, and see how it feels to go first.

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